Pregnancy Loss & Infertility Counseling

Wanting a child is one of the most powerful desires in a woman’s heart. We understand.

You are consumed by thoughts of getting pregnant. Will this be the month? Did it take? Do you feel any pregnancy symptoms? Counting the hours down until you can take a pregnancy test. Trying not to be stressed out — actually stresses you out. It’s overwhelming. And, of course, wherever you go–you run into pregnant women, strollers and beautiful babies–which all make your heart ache.

When you’re trying to get pregnant, have had a miscarriage, silent miscarriage, terminal prenatal diagnosis, or are struggling with infertility–it is only natural to focus on your attention on your physical health. But, don’t overlook the importance of your emotional health.

Are you struggling with infertility?

Are the hormones of infertility treatments and constant angst are taking a toll on you? Counting the DPO’s can slow down time to an excruciating crawl. If you have endometriosis, Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), are undergoing IVF, taking Clomid or Letrozole, we can hold your hand and help you remain positive, hopeful and your best self while undergoing these treatments.

Infertility brings several psychological impacts, according to the Harvard Medical School’s article, “The psychological impact of infertility and its treatment.”

For example, the synthetic estrogen clomiphene citrate (Clomid, Serophene), frequently prescribed because it improves ovulation and increases sperm production, may cause anxiety, sleep interruptions, mood swings, and irritability in women. Other infertility medications may cause depression, mania, irritability, and thinking problems.Harvard Health Publishing, Harvard Medical School, 2009

Does mental health impact your ability to get pregnant?

Research suggests that your mental health can impact your ability to get pregnant. A number of studies have examined stress and mood state as predictors of outcome in assisted reproduction. The majority of these studies support the theory that distress is associated with lower pregnancy rates among women pursuing infertility treatment (Boivin 1995, Thiering 1993, Demytenaere 1998, Smeenk 2001, Sanders 1999).

This research just shows us that it’s important to take care of your emotional health while trying to get pregnant. Most women worry and stress about pregnancy–that is okay! But, learning tools to manage your stress levels is important during this time.

Did you have a miscarriage, silent miscarriage, or terminal prenatal diagnosis?

Your dreams were starting to come true. You had a positive pregnancy test. You started to dream about the future. Your prayers were answered. Only to be dashed by the grief that comes with the loss of a baby. The loss of your dreams for that child. The loss of the dream of being that child’s mother. You are exhausted. Maybe you’re obsessively reviewing every food you ate, or activity you did, secretly wondering if somehow this was your fault? You know these things happen to many women, but it feels like you’re the only one.

We know because we’ve been there.

You may benefit from therapy if you are experiencing any of these common signs of depression:

– Anxiety, racing thoughts
– Depression
– Insomnia
– Loss of appetite
– Intense irritability
– Hopelessness
– Relationship challenges
– Depression, fear, or repeatedly going over thoughts
– Crying or irritability
– Lack of concentration or unwanted thoughts
– Anger, anxiety, guilt, hopelessness, loss of interest or pleasure in activities, mood swings, or panic attack

You’re managing the best you can. You’re taking care of your body. But, with counseling, your life can be so much better.

The benefits you’ll see from doing therapy at Inspire:
– You will feel heard and understood
– You will learn the benefit of taking care of yourself
– You will learn ways to communicate your needs
– You will create a clear plan for improving your mood
– You will begin to feel in control of your life
– You will start to feel freedom and peace
– You will be able to be present with the people you love
– You will feel confident in your decisions
– You will feel confident in yourself
– You will be empowered to say no or speak up for yourself
– Your relationships will be more satisfying
– You will know you matter, just for being you

What does the counseling process look like?
The counseling process is designed to help you understand your anxiety and empower you to live your best life, free of the things that hold you back. Together, with your therapist, you will learn how to address things that hold you back, learn coping skills to do at home, and ways to reduce the physical symptoms of depression.

The first session will be approximately 60 minutes. There will be paperwork to complete and questions the therapist will ask to get to know you, your history, and your present situation. The second session is our unique formula for goal-setting. In this session, you will connect the desires of your goals with your heart and deeper desires in this life. The remainder of the sessions will then be working on skills to tackle your anxiety and any obstacles in the way of you living your best life. In order to see lasting results, a commitment to at least 8 weekly sessions is best. We are flexible and can work with different situations. However, to make an impact, it is important to recognize that change of any kind, requires attention and time. After your 8 sessions, you can work with your therapist to determine the next steps (reducing therapy to biweekly/monthly or terminating).

How much does therapy cost?

Counseling is a fee-for-service program. Inspire accepts insurance and offers in-network and out-of-network benefits. We are in-network with BCBS PPO, Humana, Aetna, and United Behavior Healthcare. We recommend at least an 8-week commitment to begin seeing lasting results.

All billing policies and information can be found by clicking this link to our Rates & Insurances page.

About Inspire Counseling Center

We’ve been waiting for you! You are the reason we wake up every morning, passionate about our jobs. You want to live a great life–and we want that too. We want you to feel the freedom, joy, and connection counseling can bring.

Not sure how this works? Not sure which therapist to pick? No worries. We will personally walk you through the process.

Take the next step. Start living your best life. Don’t wait any longer!

To schedule an appointment, call (847) 919-9096 ext. 1 or email hello@inspirecounselingcenter.com.

How do I choose my Therapist?2024-01-24T17:27:07-06:00

You are welcome to search therapists by speciality type, location, service or insurance accepted by clicking here. 

We’re here to hold your hand! Choosing a therapist is a very personal experience. Scrolling through bios is helpful, but there’s a lot you can’t tell just by reading on the internet. Our Therapist Matchmakers are here to find the right fit with the right professional for your unique situation and personality style.

To talk to a LIVE human (and part of our Inspire intake team!) just call us at (847) 919-9096 ext. 1 or email hello@inspirecounselingcenter.com

We can’t wait to help you find the right match and get you started!! It’s our favorite part.

What will the first session be like?2023-10-25T02:13:43-05:00

The first session lasts approximately 60 minutes. You’ll have paperwork to complete virtually before your session. The therapist will spend time introducing themselves and getting to know you, your story and your dreams. At the end, you’ll have the option to schedule your next session based upon your availability and goals. There is no pressure to book another session. We’re here for you to come and go as you need.
FOR MINORS UNDER 18: If the session is for a child 12 years or younger, the first session is just with the therapist and parent (s) or guardian. If the client is 12-18, we ask that a parent (or guardian) attend the first session for the first 10-15 minutes. The parent will be able to meet the therapist and help make the child feel comfortable.
PLEASE NOTE: Please share any concerns about your child with the therapist or Intake Team prior to the session— not in front of your child in the session. This is to protect your child and foster a positive start to therapy!

What will all the other sessions be like?2023-10-25T02:14:39-05:00

The second session is our unique formula for goal setting. In this session, your therapist will help you connect and understand what your heart really wants in this life. The remainder of the sessions will then be working on skills to tackle any obstacles in the way of you living your best life. In order to see lasting results, a commitment to at least 8 weekly sessions is recommended. However, we are flexible and can work with you to accommodate your schedule and goals.

FOR MINORS UNDER 18: Parents will not be required to attend the sessions but must be available for the last 10 minutes of the session in case the therapist would like to touch base with you or for any scheduling changes.

How much does therapy cost?2023-10-25T02:16:18-05:00

Counseling is a fee-for-service program. Inspire accepts insurance and offers in-network and out-of-network benefits. We are in-network with BCBS PPO, Humana, Aetna, and UnitedBehaviorHealthcare. All billing policies and information can be found by clicking this link to our Rates & Insurances page.

 

 

 

 

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✨ Meet Our New Therapist: Hannah Rolighed, E.d.M ✨

We’re so excited to welcome Hannah to our Kenilworth office—especially as a Winnetka native returning to support the community she knows and loves 💛

Hannah works with children, adolescents, college students, young adults, parents, and families navigating anxiety, ADHD, emotional regulation, relationship challenges, grief, and more. With a background as a school counselor working with Pre-K through 12th grade, she brings a deep understanding of how to support kids and teens while partnering closely with families.

Hannah’s path to becoming a therapist is both professional and deeply personal. After the loss of a parent in her early twenties, she experienced firsthand the impact of having a steady, supportive space to process grief—an experience that now shapes the care and presence she offers her clients.

Her approach is warm, honest, and client-centered. She creates a space where you can show up as you are—without pressure or judgment—while working together to understand patterns, build skills, and move forward in a way that feels authentic and doable.

📍 Now seeing clients in Kenilworth
💬 Special interests: anxiety, ADHD, emotional regulation, social challenges, grief & loss, and executive functioning

Whether you’re seeking support for your child, your family, or yourself, Hannah offers a thoughtful and compassionate space to grow.

#KenilworthTherapist #NorthShoreTherapy #ChildTherapist #TeenTherapy #FamilySupport #AnxietySupport #GriefSupport #InspireCounseling #EmotionalRegulation #ADHDTherapy #ExecutiveFunctioning
✨ Meet Our New Therapist: Emily Berkman, LCSW ✨

We’re excited to welcome Emily to our Evanston office!

Emily works with teens (17+), college & graduate students, parents, adults, and older adults navigating anxiety, burnout, grief, insomnia, life transitions, and more. With over a decade of experience, she brings a thoughtful blend of ACT, psychodynamic therapy, and practical, skills-based support to help clients move forward with intention.

As a lifelong Chicagoan, first-generation college student, and caregiver within a multigenerational household, Emily brings both professional expertise and lived understanding to her work—especially when it comes to navigating complex family roles, stress, and loss.

Her approach is warm, collaborative, and grounded in compassion (with a little humor, too). Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or simply ready for change, Emily creates a space where you can explore what’s going on and take meaningful steps forward—at your own pace.

📍 Now seeing clients in Evanston
💬 Special interests: anxiety, insomnia (CBT-I), burnout, grief, caregiving stress, and building healthier habits

Taking the first step can feel hard—but you don’t have to do it alone. 

#TherapistEvanston #MentalHealthSupport #AnxietyHelp #BurnoutRecovery #GriefCounseling #CBTI #FamilyStress #MindfulTherapy #EvanstonWellness #CompassionateCare
✨ Please join us in welcoming our newest Northwestern University Clinical Intern, Patrick “Pat” Cecil, MHP! ✨

Pat is currently completing his graduate training in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Northwestern University and brings a warm, thoughtful, and collaborative approach to his work. He enjoys supporting college students, young adults, and adults navigating anxiety, OCD, depression, perfectionism, and questions around identity, relationships, and life direction.

Before pursuing counseling, Pat studied Microbiology and French at the University of Michigan and later lived in France, where he taught English to high school students. His experiences working with adolescents and exploring different cultures helped shape his passion for supporting others through growth, stress, and identity development.

Pat also holds a Master’s degree in Psychology from the University of Chicago and has conducted research at Northwestern University focused on cognitive aging. Through this work, he developed a deep appreciation for listening to people’s stories and creating space for meaningful reflection and understanding.

In therapy, Pat brings warmth, curiosity, humor, and honesty. He is passionate about creating an affirming space for LGBTQIA+ individuals and has a special interest in working with those experiencing OCD, including intrusive thoughts and compulsive patterns.

👫Serving: College Students, Young Adults, and Adults
📚Anxiety, OCD, Depression, LGBTQIA+, Intimacy and Sexuality, and Perfectionism
🏣 Working in Evanston (and virtual) 

Clients can expect a supportive, respectful environment where they feel heard and empowered to grow. 💛

We’re so excited to have him as part of the Inspire team!
#ClinicalInternship #MentalHealthCounseling #NorthwesternUniversity #AnxietySupport #OCDRecovery #LGBTQIAAffirming #YoungAdultTherapy #EvanstonTherapist #DepressionHelp #TherapyJourney
✨ Please join us in welcoming our new Northwestern University Clinical Intern, Liliana Salas, MHP! ✨

Liliana brings a deeply compassionate and personal approach to her work, supporting children, adolescents, young adults, parents, and families through life’s many transitions. She has a special passion for working with individuals navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, self-esteem, relationship stress, and adoption-related experiences.

As an adoptee herself, Liliana offers a unique and meaningful perspective on identity, attachment, and belonging. Her own life experiences—combined with her clinical training at Northwestern University—allow her to connect with clients in a genuine, empathetic, and supportive way.

👫 Serving: Children, Adolescents, College Students, Young Adults, New Mothers, Adults, Parents, and Families. 

📚Specializing in: Anxiety, Depression, Women’s Issues, Relationship Stress, Trauma, Self-Esteem, Disordered Eating, Addictions, Stressful Life Transitions, Childhood Adversity, ADHD, and Adoption-Related Concerns, including Attachment and Bonding.

🏣 Working in Northbrook office 

Liliana integrates evidence-based approaches including CBT, person-centered therapy, trauma-informed care, and attachment-focused work. She also brings a holistic lens to therapy, emphasizing the connection between mind and body, shaped by her background in fitness and wellness.

Clients working with Liliana can expect warmth, authenticity, and a safe space to feel seen, heard, and supported. 💛

We’re so excited to have her as part of our Inspire team! 

#ClinicalIntern #NorthwesternUniversity #MentalHealthSupport #AnxietyHelp #TraumaInformed #AdoptionSupport #ChildAndFamilyTherapy #CBTTherapy #NorthbrookTherapist #WellnessJourney
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