She’s Not Crazy

Book, Podcast & Movement….

Are you exhausted from the pressures today’s world puts on us for being perfect? Striving to be your best in relationships, friendships, family, dating, marriage, parenting, career, and – oh, and don’t forget- looking physically perfect?

It’s enough to make anyone feel like you’re going crazy.

If you’re like millions of other “she’s”, you may feel confused by your mood, anxiety and feelings. Understanding your mind, mood and feelings are the key to unlocking your greatest life. You’re not crazy. You’re not alone. You’re not the only one dealing with your struggles. We’re in this together!

About the author

Lauren Schifferdecker is a TEDx speaker, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, entrepreneur, author, wife and mom . She founded Inspire in 2015 in a humble storage closet. Today, Inspire has nearly 70 employees across four locations in the Chicagoland area, offering counseling and psychiatry services. Most recently, Lauren has been named a Power Woman in Sheridan Road magazine’s 2023 roundup– as well as the “Most Influential Women Entrepreneurs Thriving in the Healthcare Ecosystem in 2023” by Healthcare Insights magazine.

Lauren’s here to offer a fresh approach for mental health with humor and heart-felt stories, and techniques that will inspire, educate and entertain you along the way!

“She’s Not Crazy” BOOK

If you’ve ever felt lost or confused by your feelings, you’re not crazy. More importantly, you’re not alone. “She’s Not Crazy” is an act of love.
Lauren is a seasoned psychotherapist sharing heartfelt, relatable and vulnerable stories from her own life and professional tools to harness your feminine power. This isn’t just for women. Feminine power is for all humans. Feminine power is in all humans.
Society openly celebrates masculine power, but often overlooks the feminine gifts in power. The truth is we need both for balance. In this book, you’ll gain realistic and easy steps to harness your divine feminine power to enhance your relationships, success and life.
ALL PROCEEDS from the book will be used for Inspire Change for Mental Health. A 501c3 Non-Profit group Lauren started to offer counseling services to people without insurance or ability to pay for services.
She’s Not Crazy book will be available for pre-order on Amazon and Kindle in late 2023. Sign up for our e-newlsetter to be notified once the book is available for order.

“She’s Not Crazy”

Book by ~ Lauren Schifferdecker, MA, LCPC

As a mom, wife, former public relations executive, multi-site counseling practice owner, TEDx speaker and Podcast host–I can tell you I know a thing or two about feeling crazy trying to keep up with everything!! (and yes, I know, I use too many explanation points and emojis!!!)

After struggling to feel comfortable in my own skin for years, I finally decided to do something about it. In my quest to understand what was going on in my own head, it turned into a life-long obsession to create understanding and hacks to help find balance and peace. I’ve helped hundreds of clients, employees, listeners and people in the community step into who they really are and confidently show up in their lives like never before. I’m glad you’re here, and I can’t wait for you to see what’s next!

Catch all new episodes of "She's Not Crazy" Podcast only on

About The Show

Are you exhausted from the pressures today’s world puts on us for being perfect? Striving to be your best in relationships, friendships, family, dating, marriage, parenting, career, and – oh, and don’t forget- looking physically perfect? It’s enough to make anyone feel like you’re going crazy.

If you’re like millions of other “she’s”, you may feel confused by your mood, anxiety and feelings. Understanding your mind, mood and feelings are the key to unlocking your greatest life. Tap into the power of feeling balanced and living life on YOUR terms. Join thousands of other “she’s” on a journey to have more peace, happiness, connection and authentic relationships.

When you feel balanced and feel in control, everything in your life works better.

Tune In to The Latest Episodes!!

“She’s Not Crazy” PODCAST

Lauren Schifferdecker, TEDx speaker, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, is here to go on a journey, together, of discovery using a fresh approach for mental health hacks, humor and heart-felt stories, and techniques that will inspire, educate and entertain you along the way!

“She’s Not Crazy”

Podcast Host ~ Lauren Schifferdecker

As a mom, wife, former public relations executive, multi-site counseling practice owner, TEDx speaker and Podcast host–I can tell you I know a thing or two about feeling crazy trying to keep up with everything!! (and yes, I know, I use too many explanation points and emojis!!!)

After struggling to feel comfortable in my own skin for years, I finally decided to do something about it. In my quest to understand what was going on in my own head, it turned into a life-long obsession to create understanding and hacks to help find balance and peace. I’ve helped hundreds of clients, employees, listeners and people in the community step into who they really are and confidently show up in their lives like never before. I’m glad you’re here, and I can’t wait for you to see what’s next!

Catch all new episodes of "She's Not Crazy" Podcast only on

About The Show

Are you exhausted from the pressures today’s world puts on us for being perfect? Striving to be your best in relationships, friendships, family, dating, marriage, parenting, career, and – oh, and don’t forget- looking physically perfect? It’s enough to make anyone feel like you’re going crazy.

If you’re like millions of other “she’s”, you may feel confused by your mood, anxiety and feelings. Understanding your mind, mood and feelings are the key to unlocking your greatest life. Tap into the power of feeling balanced and living life on YOUR terms. Join thousands of other “she’s” on a journey to have more peace, happiness, connection and authentic relationships.

When you feel balanced and feel in control, everything in your life works better.

Tune In to The Latest Episodes!!

“She’s Not Crazy”

Podcast Host ~ Lauren Schifferdecker

As a mom, wife, former public relations executive, multi-site counseling practice owner, TEDx speaker and Podcast host–I can tell you I know a thing or two about feeling crazy trying to keep up with everything!! (and yes, I know, I use too many explanation points and emojis!!!)

After struggling to feel comfortable in my own skin for years, I finally decided to do something about it. In my quest to understand what was going on in my own head, it turned into a life-long obsession to create understanding and hacks to help find balance and peace. I’ve helped hundreds of clients, employees, listeners and people in the community step into who they really are and confidently show up in their lives like never before. I’m glad you’re here, and I can’t wait for you to see what’s next!

Catch all new episodes of "She's Not Crazy" Podcast only on

About The Show

Are you exhausted from the pressures today’s world puts on us for being perfect? Striving to be your best in relationships, friendships, family, dating, marriage, parenting, career, and – oh, and don’t forget- looking physically perfect? It’s enough to make anyone feel like you’re going crazy.

If you’re like millions of other “she’s”, you may feel confused by your mood, anxiety and feelings. Understanding your mind, mood and feelings are the key to unlocking your greatest life. Tap into the power of feeling balanced and living life on YOUR terms. Join thousands of other “she’s” on a journey to have more peace, happiness, connection and authentic relationships.

When you feel balanced and feel in control, everything in your life works better.

Tune In to The Latest Episodes!!

“She’s Not Crazy”

Podcast Host ~ Lauren Schifferdecker

As a mom, wife, former public relations executive, multi-site counseling practice owner, TEDx speaker and Podcast host–I can tell you I know a thing or two about feeling crazy trying to keep up with everything!! (and yes, I know, I use too many explanation points and emojis!!!)

After struggling to feel comfortable in my own skin for years, I finally decided to do something about it. In my quest to understand what was going on in my own head, it turned into a life-long obsession to create understanding and hacks to help find balance and peace. I’ve helped hundreds of clients, employees, listeners and people in the community step into who they really are and confidently show up in their lives like never before. I’m glad you’re here, and I can’t wait for you to see what’s next!

Catch all new episodes of "She's Not Crazy" Podcast only on

About The Show

Are you exhausted from the pressures today’s world puts on us for being perfect? Striving to be your best in relationships, friendships, family, dating, marriage, parenting, career, and – oh, and don’t forget- looking physically perfect? It’s enough to make anyone feel like you’re going crazy.

If you’re like millions of other “she’s”, you may feel confused by your mood, anxiety and feelings. Understanding your mind, mood and feelings are the key to unlocking your greatest life. Tap into the power of feeling balanced and living life on YOUR terms. Join thousands of other “she’s” on a journey to have more peace, happiness, connection and authentic relationships.

When you feel balanced and feel in control, everything in your life works better.

Tune In to The Latest Episodes!!

Transforming work relationships & culture trough conflict

Listen to how real conflict at work can be used to build trust, eliminate drama, transform the culture in the midst of growing pains.

Men’s emotions – what’s really going on?

Get the scoop from a top male therapist who reveals what’s really going on with men’s emotions and the struggle between feeling shut-down and explosive blow ups. Not only that – hear his personal story about relationship struggles, counseling and why men so often stay silent.

Why guys struggle with emotions.

There is a profound loss for boys and men when they can’t express their wants, needs and feelings. If we can redefine masculinity and manhood, we can improve relationships and allow guys to feel alive and happy again.

Being a person your kids want to talk to

Snag this magic tool for talking to your kids, so you are a person they’ll want to share with again. Relating instead of fixing our kids problems.

What should we do when our kids face challenges?

It’s so hard when our kids face challenges and make mistakes. Here’s one simple trick to partner with them today, so they have tools to solve bigger problems in the future.

Go to bed angry

We’ve all heard, never go to be angry. But, there’s a good reason to give yourself one night’s sleep to be more self-respecting and deliver a message that’s actually heard and understood.

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Motivation is overrated ….and not required for success

How to talk to your kids, so they’ll talk to YOU!

No-Brainer ways to increase Self-confidence…. (seriously, no thinking required!)

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The enemy of anxiety is action

🦃Navigating Eating Struggles During the Holidays

The holidays are often pictured as a time of joy, celebration, and… lots of food. For some, that’s fun — but for those with eating or body image concerns, it can also be stressful. Anxiety, guilt, or shame around meals can show up easily, especially with family gatherings, social expectations, and changes in routine.

Here are some gentle reminders to care for yourself this season:

✨ Give yourself permission to eat. Restricting often backfires — your body needs consistent fuel to feel safe and supported.

✨ Focus on connection, not control. Enjoy conversations, share memories, and be present with the people you care about.

✨ Set boundaries. It’s okay to redirect conversations about diets, weight, or calories with a simple, “I’m focusing on enjoying the day — can we change the subject?”

✨ Have a grounding plan. Deep breaths, journaling, or a short walk can help manage anxiety before it builds.

✨ Practice self-compassion. If a meal feels difficult, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed. Treat yourself with the same kindness you’d offer a friend.

✨ Reach out for support. You don’t have to navigate this alone — therapy can help you build a healthier relationship with food, your body, and yourself.

Remember: you deserve peace with food, your body, and within yourself this holiday season. 💛

📞 Call us at 847-919-9096
💌 Email hello@inspirecounselingcenter.com

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🦃 Family Holiday Bingo: A Fun Therapist-Approved Way to Stay Grounded 🦃 

We are officially ONE WEEK away from Thanksgiving!! 

Let’s be honest — family gatherings can be… a lot. 😅 Between the opinions, the jokes that aren’t really funny, and the “When are you getting married?” questions, it’s easy to feel triggered or overwhelmed.

Here's a game us therapists use to help people avoid getting triggered and — instead get grounded and have a little fun! 

🦃Family Holiday Bingo!🦃

Here’s how to play:
1️⃣ Before the holiday, make a bingo card with all the predictable family moments you might experience. (Think: “Uncle brings up politics,” “Mom asks about your dating life,” “Someone critiques the food,” “Sibling humblebrags.”)
2️⃣ During the day, notice when these things happen — and check them off your card.
3️⃣ Later, compare cards or text your “Bingo Buddy” when you’ve got a win! 🧡

It’s a lighthearted way to stay calm, grounded, and amused instead of reactive. The goal isn’t to judge — it’s to observe and laugh a little through the chaos. 

By anticipating your triggers and make a little light of them, it will help you to stay grounded, positive and hopefully enjoy your holiday just a little bit more. 

Because let’s face it — no family is perfect. But with curiosity (and a little humor), you can make this holiday a lot more enjoyable.

🤗Need help setting boundaries or managing holiday stress?
Our therapists at Inspire Counseling Center can help you prepare and feel more confident heading into the season.

📞 847-919-9096 | 💌 hello@inspirecounselingcenter.com

🌐https://inspirecounselingcenter.com/making-the-most-of-thanksgiving/ 

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🦃 Thanksgiving Conversation Starters 🦃 

Let’s be real — family gatherings can get interesting. Between the food, opinions, and old stories, it’s easy for tension or awkward moments to sneak in.

If you want to help guide your family toward more meaningful and uplifting conversations, try sprinkling in some of these (therapist-approved!) questions. 

➡️Even better– put these questions in a bowl and pass it around the table! Everyone gets a chance to talk, share and add laughter and happiness to your dinner.

🦃What’s one of your favorite holiday memories?
🦃What’s something that made you laugh this year?
🦃What’s one thing you’re grateful for this year that surprised you?
🦃What’s a small moment from this year that made you really happy?
🦃If you could relive one day from this year, what would it be?
🦃What’s something you learned about yourself in the past year?
🦃What’s a family tradition you love — or one you’d love to start?
🦃Who’s someone who made a difference in your life this year?
🦃What’s one thing you’re looking forward to in the new year?

Sometimes, one good question can turn a surface-level conversation into a truly heartwarming one. 💛

Wishing you connection, laughter, and gratitude this Thanksgiving season.

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🧠 Need extra support managing holiday stress or family dynamics?
Our therapists at Inspire Counseling Center are here to help you prepare, stay grounded, and feel more at peace.
📞 847-919-9096 | 💌 hello@inspirecounselingcenter.com

🌐 https://inspirecounselingcenter.com/making-the-most-of-thanksgiving/

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✨ Thanksgiving Reality Check ✨

We're in the countdown to Thanksgiving....and we're here for you! 

The holidays are supposed to be full of joy and connection — but for many, they also bring stress, tension, comparison, and old family triggers.

If you find yourself feeling anxious before a family gathering (or dreaming of a “perfect” Thanksgiving that never quite happens), you’re not alone. 💛

This year, try approaching your holiday with curiosity and compassion — not perfection.
✔️ Expect imperfection.
✔️ Notice your triggers instead of reacting.
✔️ Shift the focus to connection.
✔️ Try fun tools like “Family Holiday Bingo” to stay grounded.
✔️ Use positive conversation starters to spark laughter and gratitude.

No family is perfect — but with the right mindset, you can create moments of peace, humor, and connection that truly matter. 🧡

Read our newest blog post for practical tips (and Thanksgiving conversation ideas!) to help you stay calm and centered this season.

👉 Visit ihttps://inspirecounselingcenter.com/making-the-most-of-thanksgiving/ or click the link in our bio.
📞 Need extra support this holiday season? Call 847-919-9096 or email hello@inspirecounselingcenter.com
 — we’re here for you.

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